The content creator has urged Bonnie Blue to reconsider her life plans as he opens up about having slept with more than 1,000 women
A social media influencer has described himself as the male version of Bonnie Blue, and he’s now warning the adult film star that she may be heading down a dangerous path.
While his name might not be instantly familiar, Benny James, a British content creator, made his mark over the years by hitting up nightclubs in London as many as four times a week. Over the course of a decade, he claims he ended up sleeping with over 1,000 women.
At the time, he tried to convince himself that it was all harmless fun and that he was simply enjoying life. He told himself that sleeping with multiple women every week was just part of the lifestyle. But deep down, he admits now that it wasn’t the truth at all.
Rather than feeling happy or fulfilled, he says the long list of partners only reminded him how lonely he really was. The 31-year-old eventually realized he was messaging strangers just because he didn’t want to feel alone.
James, who’s from Croydon in South London, is now speaking up to encourage Bonnie Blue to rethink her choices. She recently made headlines for reportedly sleeping with 1,057 men in one day, hoping to break a world record.
“I was probably like the male equivalent to Bonnie Blue back in the day.” James said.
Benny James claims to have slept with more than 1,000 women
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“I would tell her to think about the future. In 10 years time, how’s it going to affect your mental health? How is that going to affect you physically?”
“With me, my friends and family saw me as ‘Jack the lad’ – going out, having fun. But deep down, it was affecting me without me knowing, until I hit rock bottom.”
He went on to say: “I think the way she’s going, she gets so much negativity. That will play a big role.”
The influencer pictured in a blue waistcoat back in 2019 during his playboy years, presenting an award
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“It’ll just build and build and build up. And then when you want to sit back and have a normal life, it’s hard to do that.”
“Right now, I think it’s just money, money, money for her. I feel for her because I feel like it’s almost a type of self harm, almost like she’s doing it because she feels worthless.”
James has experienced the toll this kind of lifestyle can take. He says it left him battling depression, and the anxiety that came with it made things even worse for him mentally and emotionally.
These days, James says things have started to look up. He has settled down with a partner, and that relationship has helped him reconnect with who he really is and feel grounded again.
“I’ve kind of just found myself in a good place, and where I promote stuff for mental health and things now I get a lot of love back from it.” he added.